Transgendered Teens

I came across this video, which I found really insightful.



I think Katie comes across very well, and both have very legitimate reasons for transitioning. I'd love to see more positive stuff like this out there for young transvestites, because our journey is similar and different at the same time.

Lots to think and pray about.

This video may not work for some of you. If not let me know and I'll see what I can do.

Wearing Pantyhose

I just came across this little video and thought I'd share.

Have fun wearing those pantyhose!

The Heel Obsession

I'm quite obsessed with heels. If a woman walks past wearing heels I can't help but notice. In fact, if a woman walks past, I make a point of noticing what's on her feet.

So why the attraction? Simple: heels are sexy and feminine. The question is, have they become an idol?

 

Is a confession...sexy?

Experiment time.
As I write I'm wearing a dark shade of lipstick, corset, pantyhose and some very sexy Pleaser high heels (Amazon link). Oh, and I'm a bloke.

Why am I sharing this? My purpose with this blog is to man up and move away from cross-dressing, not to encourage men to dress. I think there is something appealing to cross-dressers about sharing their escapades online. In fact, I think many transvestites/cross-dressers/call us what you will, live their cross-dressing lives online. If this is the case, then what kind of message is it sending to other cross-dressers? I'd love to know what you think, leave a comment below.

Closer To The One You Love

My wife and I had a very truthful conversation about cross-dressing on Saturday night. She was put off by the fact that I'd bought her a sexy long sleeve teddy, one which I also already owned. She didn't want to wear anything associated with my cross-dressing, which I can totally understand.

This lead to a long conversation in which we shared our feelings and views and she asked me many difficult questions. It was made all the more meaningful because neither of us were judgemental of the other. It has never been this easy to talk, and I believe the secret is because of our quiet times.

This year we've been studying the Bible together and praying after work. It's done wonders for our relationship because we've become more open to each other. Our love has grown to the point were it's strong enough for us to talk about the painful things and I can share my true thoughts without the fear of being rejected by her.

We didn't make love that Saturday. She was turned off and hurt. The next day we had the most amazing love making. Our truthful conversation had brought us closer in our relationship, the love we shared and the friendship between us becoming more important than the cross-dressing, the hurt or the fear.

Happy 2014

2014 is rolling along under full steam now, promising to be a really interesting year. Why? Well I've been cross-dressing up a storm. I now own the same amount of heels as I do regular shoes. So manning up is not going well, but I've been considering if that's such a bad thing or not. To help my contemplation I've written a manifesto, part of which I want to share with you today, as I embark on a year of personal introspection.

Love the Lord your God...

Everything we do should glorify God. I want to live my life glorifying Him. Does cross-dressing form part of that? It's something I've been wondering about since I became a Christian. This is the first and most important point of my manifesto.

Love your neighbour...

We should never hurt others, showing only love. Specifically, I don't want my cross-dressing to hurt my wife, family, friends or you, my readers. This is the second most important point of my manifesto.

...As you love yourself

I have low self esteem, but want to love myself the way God loves me. I want to be happy with who I am, and this is where I think cross-dressing plays a part. I don't want to be a woman, just a man who can enjoy beauty. I don't want to dress like a slut, a girl or have a sex change or breasts or any of that, but I do think I should be able to enjoy dressing up and that it might be a vital part of who I am. My focus this year is to contemplate that.

Porn clouds the mind

I want to eradicate porn from my life, because I need to approach cross-dressing with an untainted mind. This will also make it easier for my wife and I to grow together and to talk about cross-dressing.

That's just some of what I'm thinking about, and I'd love to share the journey here. Leave a comment and let me know you're listening.