I read you!

I was in Tokyo yesterday and got to do some sight seeing. What I didn't expect to see was not one but two men en femme. One was Asian and the other American or British or some such. The funny thing was that the European one saw that I read her/him and probably panicked a little. I wonder what she/he thought I was thinking?

I must say I was surprised. I've been cross dressing for ages now but never seen an actual cross dresser besides myself in actual life. Questions exploded into my head:
How do you go to the toilet? Surely you're invading real woman's privacy?
Do you think no one can tell? Does the silence of those around you equal acceptance?

I really want to reiterate that I'm not here to judge. What works for someone is up to them, I'm looking for what works for me. The experience reminded me why I don't want to be an "out" cross dresser and why I want to outgrow my dressing urges. I want my wife to be proud that I'm on her arm and not a black mark she has to hide.

Read/reading: when you recognize someone isn't of the gender they're intending to portray.
Out: if your family and friends know you're a cross dresser.

Tough Choices

You and I both need to make a choice. Lipstick or the tie? Sissify or Man Up? It's not my place to tell someone who likes cross dressing that they should put away the frock, rather, this blog is aimed at people who, like me, want to beat cross dressing in their own lives. There may be plenty of people out there who say it can't be done, but I'll wager there have been many success stories that, because of the stigma associated to cross dressing, have never been told. So, tell me, what's your choice? What successes have you had?

Frocks Forgotten

It's funny how changing your focus can change your attitude. I've been working hard to achieve personal goals and the result has been that I've hardly thought of crossdressing much in the past few weeks.

I've been looking forward to buying these shoes, but today I found myself clearing my shopping cart and choosing some fun guy things instead. I feel a whole lot happier too, but time will tell. I'll keep you posted.

Silvia
PS: The kiss is just a funny little thing to say "hey, this is a crossdressers blog." I don't mean anything other than playfulness by it.