What I stand for...

I've been trying to reconcile my ideas of cross-dressing, my purpose for this blog, and my faith. I haven't succeeded. I guess that's really the point of this blog in some ways, that it's either cross-dressing OR faith, not cross-dressing AND faith.

But I do think every man who has enjoyed wearing heels has some realisation of the importance in faith, faith in themselves, faith in an idea, or, most importantly, faith in God.


What about you, dear reader? What does faith mean to you?

Transgendered Teens

I came across this video, which I found really insightful.



I think Katie comes across very well, and both have very legitimate reasons for transitioning. I'd love to see more positive stuff like this out there for young transvestites, because our journey is similar and different at the same time.

Lots to think and pray about.

This video may not work for some of you. If not let me know and I'll see what I can do.

Actions Speak

Actions speak louder than words. We're too quick to complain while our poor actions as a community do little to endear us to the general public. I recently read this passage in My Husband Betty :

Heather explains:

I see most people that are into fringe movements and lifestyles as a bunch of whiners who would rather try to legislate society's acceptance of their actions than try to make themselves valuable people who happen to be crossdressers (or whatever other fringe they inhabit). To me, no one owes me acceptance, much less encouragement. If they are capable of giving me that, bonus! But, it's not and shouldn't be a given.

She's so right. If the Crossdressing community was know by the good they do, surely we would have a better reputation and a place in society. Why not fight for woman's rights, raise money to fight breast cancer or raise awareness about domestic violence. 


Silvia