Happy 2014

2014 is rolling along under full steam now, promising to be a really interesting year. Why? Well I've been cross-dressing up a storm. I now own the same amount of heels as I do regular shoes. So manning up is not going well, but I've been considering if that's such a bad thing or not. To help my contemplation I've written a manifesto, part of which I want to share with you today, as I embark on a year of personal introspection.

Love the Lord your God...

Everything we do should glorify God. I want to live my life glorifying Him. Does cross-dressing form part of that? It's something I've been wondering about since I became a Christian. This is the first and most important point of my manifesto.

Love your neighbour...

We should never hurt others, showing only love. Specifically, I don't want my cross-dressing to hurt my wife, family, friends or you, my readers. This is the second most important point of my manifesto.

...As you love yourself

I have low self esteem, but want to love myself the way God loves me. I want to be happy with who I am, and this is where I think cross-dressing plays a part. I don't want to be a woman, just a man who can enjoy beauty. I don't want to dress like a slut, a girl or have a sex change or breasts or any of that, but I do think I should be able to enjoy dressing up and that it might be a vital part of who I am. My focus this year is to contemplate that.

Porn clouds the mind

I want to eradicate porn from my life, because I need to approach cross-dressing with an untainted mind. This will also make it easier for my wife and I to grow together and to talk about cross-dressing.

That's just some of what I'm thinking about, and I'd love to share the journey here. Leave a comment and let me know you're listening.