Doing the maids work...

Let's face it, black hose with a French maid's outfit, that's a core fantasy for most cross-dressers. I figure it's a good thing, because we've got to keep things clean. I did a major washing of all my lady things today and feel much better for it.

Most underwear, stockings and so on can easily be hand washed in cold water. Just add a little clothes washing powder or liquid to a sink of cold water. Then wash similar colours together. Be especially careful of darker colours, because they may run, meaning you could get black everywhere. It's always a good idea to wash your clothes before you wear them to get some of this extra dye out.

When you're done, rinse in cold water and wring out and hang up to dry. If you need to be discreet, you can also wring the clothes in a towel to help them along and hang them out of sight, such as in the shower.

It's a good idea to wash anything, especially underwear after each time you wear it. As a cross-dresser, I often only wear my panties and stockings for a few hours at a time, but it's a good idea to clean them anyway. Hand washing will also make your things last longer.

What I stand for...

I've been trying to reconcile my ideas of cross-dressing, my purpose for this blog, and my faith. I haven't succeeded. I guess that's really the point of this blog in some ways, that it's either cross-dressing OR faith, not cross-dressing AND faith.

But I do think every man who has enjoyed wearing heels has some realisation of the importance in faith, faith in themselves, faith in an idea, or, most importantly, faith in God.


What about you, dear reader? What does faith mean to you?

Transgendered Teens

I came across this video, which I found really insightful.



I think Katie comes across very well, and both have very legitimate reasons for transitioning. I'd love to see more positive stuff like this out there for young transvestites, because our journey is similar and different at the same time.

Lots to think and pray about.

This video may not work for some of you. If not let me know and I'll see what I can do.

Wearing Pantyhose

I just came across this little video and thought I'd share.

Have fun wearing those pantyhose!

The Heel Obsession

I'm quite obsessed with heels. If a woman walks past wearing heels I can't help but notice. In fact, if a woman walks past, I make a point of noticing what's on her feet.

So why the attraction? Simple: heels are sexy and feminine. The question is, have they become an idol?

 

Is a confession...sexy?

Experiment time.
As I write I'm wearing a dark shade of lipstick, corset, pantyhose and some very sexy Pleaser high heels (Amazon link). Oh, and I'm a bloke.

Why am I sharing this? My purpose with this blog is to man up and move away from cross-dressing, not to encourage men to dress. I think there is something appealing to cross-dressers about sharing their escapades online. In fact, I think many transvestites/cross-dressers/call us what you will, live their cross-dressing lives online. If this is the case, then what kind of message is it sending to other cross-dressers? I'd love to know what you think, leave a comment below.

Closer To The One You Love

My wife and I had a very truthful conversation about cross-dressing on Saturday night. She was put off by the fact that I'd bought her a sexy long sleeve teddy, one which I also already owned. She didn't want to wear anything associated with my cross-dressing, which I can totally understand.

This lead to a long conversation in which we shared our feelings and views and she asked me many difficult questions. It was made all the more meaningful because neither of us were judgemental of the other. It has never been this easy to talk, and I believe the secret is because of our quiet times.

This year we've been studying the Bible together and praying after work. It's done wonders for our relationship because we've become more open to each other. Our love has grown to the point were it's strong enough for us to talk about the painful things and I can share my true thoughts without the fear of being rejected by her.

We didn't make love that Saturday. She was turned off and hurt. The next day we had the most amazing love making. Our truthful conversation had brought us closer in our relationship, the love we shared and the friendship between us becoming more important than the cross-dressing, the hurt or the fear.